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They can cause some queer men of color to feel undesirable, which in turn can pressure some queer men of color to lie about their racial/ethnic identity in order to attract attention.It is troubling to see racial hierarchies reified in online queer dating spaces because queer people should know better.

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We help media brands, affiliates and entrepreneurs effortlessly create their own online dating site or network. I’ve met a few people who have experienced problems with online dating.One queer man of color I know is half-Indian and half-Italian with a common Indian name.For instance, one white man asked him, “Do you wanna make a white man your slave?” Another white man refused to believe he was Black, citing his “Chinese-looking eyes.” These are just a few stories that illustrate the effects of racism within online dating communities comprising mostly gay men.Based on data published by Ok Trends, a blog produced by Ok Cupid, white gay men respond more often to Ok Cupid messages from other white men than from men of color.

They respond to messages from other white men 44% of the time but respond only 37.3% of the time to men of color.

But in online dating profiles he uses a common English first name and an Italian surname.

He waits until he meets someone to reveal his real name and racial/ethnic identity because men sometimes stop talking to him when they find out he’s partly Indian.

Another person I know is Black but has self-identified as mixed-race on Grindr because he gets little attention when he identifies himself as Black.

And the attention he does receive for identifying as Black isn’t favorable – it’s frequently unsolicited and racialized.

I want to live in a pluralistic world, where whiteness holds the same value as all other amalgams of race, ethnicity, and culture.