Perhaps the best way to combat the urge to wallow is to give your intellect a say.
Give yourself until, say, next Thursday to welter in misery.I was upset and confused about my feelings, and embarrassed at not being able to bounce back into the swing of things.Post-ratiocination, you're called upon to walk the fine line between feeling your feelings and giving in to the inertia that makes your bed, the TV, excessive eating and other quasi-depressive activities seem far more seductive than is productive.My wife luvs to rim men at our Friday nite swing sessions - and I luv to watch her doing it!In fact she likes to have me lick her pussy whilst men sit on her face - she says she has the best orgasms ever in this fashion!If you find yourself thinking about HIM (or HER) at a.m., tell yourself you'll think about that during the allotted time.
Hindsight is a beautiful thing, but it's not readily available to you while you negotiate an emotional morass.
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What is available to you, though, is hindsight from the past.
(And especially if you feel that you've already gone out with every other available person in your gender/age target group and have already been told that you're "too picky" for ruling out hermaphrodites.) After a recent breakup, two or three weeks slipped by without my noticing.
Even after a very hard breakup, it's essential that -- beyond whatever feelings of despair you may feel on the surface -- you remain aware that somewhere, deep down, there IS a kernel of hope.