Problems dating black men
But I don’t think I have to go this far to get my personal point across.
So to the black women who feel that they are losing out to women of other races, fear not, boo.This is something that I believe in, and fully support.Therefore, before I go further, let me say this: I do not hate, dislike, or look down on black men who date, love, and marry white women. Black women want too much, they have too many attitudes.” and other generalizations are reasons (I personally call them excuses, but I digress) as to why some black men now avoid dating black women.Both insatiable and lazy, he is creator of chaos and maker of his own inevitable demise; he is forever guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. As angry and volatile as their female counterparts, black men, by their very presence, give society reason to assume the defensive.He is simultaneously invisible and ever present in the minds and lives of white America. Debased, filthy and unworthy, black men, we are told, are sexual deviants incapable of either desiring or maintaining healthy, meaningful relationships.The black man occupies a unique space in American culture.
He is an aggressive and inherently violent threat to society.
However, if you are far too concerned with the bad that MAY be an issue, then you do not deserve her at her best.
Your refusal to date a black women because she will stand up to you, speak her mind without your permission, and be whoever she decides to be that day does not change the fact that she will do ALL of these things.
You are fine the way you are every day, even on the days you are upset that your twist out didn’t come out right.
And to all the men who still feel like they will not date black women: carry on.
When I choose to date a black man, I inevitably send a message to society about who I am and what I represent.