No dating just sex
Are you really in it just for sex, or are you hoping to get more out of it?
I, for one, am very much in favor of going after what I truly want, and if having fun without the frills of a romantic relationship is what you want, so be it.There will be no holding hands, no terms of endearment and no discussing feelings or personal details.The more time you put in not doing these things, the more this behavior becomes normal to you.Your relationship is merely an agreement between two people to have sex with no strings attached and no feelings involved.Asking or expecting more than sex is a violation of your agreement. So now, whether you’ve never been in a strictly-sex relationship before or you’re considering the idea, here’s what you need to know about the physical, psychological, social and emotional risks and consequences of taking part in no-strings nookie: This is the most common risk of being in a f*ck buddy setup.Without being able to confide in, share meaningful conversations and doing personal activities apart from sex with your partner, your relationship lacks depth and significance.
Before you get into any friends-with-benefits relationship, you should ask your partner and make sure he or she does not have any STDs before you engage in any acts.
It also doesn't help that there is a double standard against women hooking up, so you resort to either confiding in only your closest non-judgmental friends about the relationship, or not telling anyone else about it at all.
You know that your partner is willing to hook up without asking for anything in return, and this puts him or her in a different light when compared to other people you’ve been with.
It’s fun and it’s convenient, and other than a pair of sexy undies, you don’t invest much into it. The topics of your communication will be predominantly when to hook up, what position is preferred and which toys or roles to try.
You basically get to have a no-holds-barred humpfest and go about your day afterwards without needing to check on your partner. Therefore, you cannot expect your “playmate” to start asking you what your favorite color is, what your hopes and dreams are or how many kids you want to have, nor should you ask these questions.
Also remember to always wear protection whenever you do the deed.