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Once you want her less and know here more, you'll be in a much better position."I met this guy, and he took me to dinner, and it was really romantic, but he did/didn't try to kiss me, then he called/didn't call back, then he asked/didn't ask me out again, and what does it all mean is he interested what should I do help help help."Anaїs Nin once said, "We do not see the world as it is; we see the world as we are." Thus you have the choice to see the world with a lens of wealth-consciousness or poverty-consciousness.
Seems to me that without really having spoken to this woman, you have already built her up far too much.Big-heartedness and self-sufficiency, on the other hand, work much better.Even the Bible has something to say about that: "For he that hath, to him shall be given: and he that hath not, from him shall be taken away even that which he hath."And you know what? Because even if only one thousandth of one percent of the 6.5 billion people in this world are cool enough to be eligible for your companionship, that's, oh, 65,000 folks.Sign up for the advance notification list at taoofdating.com/women. I only noticed this girl and so, I started looking at her.There is this girl in town I have been looking at for quite some time now (it's a girl, not a woman, 20 years of age or so). I have not made her know that I'm interested in her. Could you please advice me on how to make a move for this girl??Do you see scarcity, lack and limitation around you, or wealth, possibility and abundance?
The mindset you choose bears directly upon the success of your love life (and your success in general). "all the good ones are taken" - begets neediness, and neediness is not attractive.
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Waiting for the world to arrange its circumstances perfectly to allow you to start loving, to paraphrase Ramana Maharshi, is like wanting to cover the world in leather so you can walk barefoot.
So this battle is already lost -- if you go into it with the mindset that she's so great (do you really know that?
) and somehow you must have her because she's cute and 'there for the taking.' I would recommend going out with a few other women or just speaking to this one with the aim of finding out who she is (vs impressing her, or trying to pull off some trick to 'get' her).
As a woman, if you take on too much yang, you risk turning into a facsimile of a guy, which may be admirable but not necessarily attractive.